Sveta, I totally agree with your point #1.
There was actually a precedent by a liberal ( and I know this judge personally) judge about 4 years ago to forbid a woman to have more children and it proved to be not enforcible because of all kinds of idiotic things:
***********.thefreelibrary.com/New+York+judge+orders+drug-addicted+moms+to+have+no+more+children-a0130647487

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